hello sanboni to milan zanzi welcome to cmtv and yet another episode of closure bring me back my stuff my name of course is lisa me and i will be your host for today today we have omandi you know what it is you know what it do it is about to go bananas now man you obviously want a closure man to my sister please come join me please grab the mic mandy how are you how am i killing yourself i'm okay so what are you doing here today well i want to find closure for my boyfriend actually not eggs and how long have you been about it's been a month it's been a month yeah and how long were you together before nine months or so okay so do you want to break it down what actually happened okay like it seemed like he had a problem with my male bestie and you complained about it before did he actually communicate not really then how do you know he had a problem with the male bestie like whenever i tell him that i'm with him like he'll basically change and be moody and stuff yeah so then how did the relationship end ah he just blocked me ah so you got ghosted on all social media platforms or just what type of work everywhere everywhere yeah okay did you try and get a hold of him like did you try to go to his place no trees not really you just let it be yeah and it's been a month now yeah and you want to know what's up hey all right all right amazing you've heard it from mandy she got a ghosted right after the break i will be calling the boy the mans who left please do stay tuned welcome back cmtv viewers now i am going to call the boy mandy what's his name her that's her chad so now i'm going to be on my way to fetch hotel we need to know what's up hello oops sorry okay just stand there for me go forward just yeah and turn around there's a couch behind you okay let me just hand you the mic all right hotel how are you i'm finding you i'm okay so basically you are at a show called closure right and what happens here an ex will call you back and basically seek closure basically ask you some questions do you know of anyone you may have ghosted i need you to at least give me three names yeah okay i think the only one i think could be mindy you ghosted a mandy before yeah but if you don't have other exes well there is other exits but but like i i don't like i actually i don't see that as a relationship i don't know what i was doing yes yes okay i wanna unblind you and then you'll see who's here okay player okay how do you feel that you were right i don't know for now you don't you don't know mike closer okay am i closer to your lips yeah all right so how do you feel um you just said you just said her name mandy you weren't expecting her like like what i mean is that like the way the way things ended up before like actually before it ended like i wasn't expecting her she could try to talk to me yeah because of like recently it wasn't like okay do you wanna tell what actually happened yeah i can tell uh the thing is that um mindy was nice at first but then when time goes by so she started she started giving me attitude i wanted okay yeah so like so like i thought like maybe she had like maybe things maybe something was affecting emotionally but yeah so i was trying to give her space but then there was this [ __ ] she was calling a bargain uh basically they called them best place yeah yeah they called them besties i know anyways a [ __ ] is a guy i wanna yeah they can do something and he thinks like you think so you know what he's thinking yeah because he's also a man yeah i'm also a man because i know what to do yeah okay mandy yeah you just said the problem was a male bestie he just mentioned this i did not know about the attitude i don't know how you want me to fight for you funny you know when girls are on their periods like moods yeah but only once a month yeah yeah it just wasn't bad yeah tell him why he's here and what do you want from him okay from you i want you to tell me why did you cost me like from nowhere i want to know what's happening like it's been a month without communicating and you know relationships break with that communication the the reason why i decided to stop communicating with you is because every time i try to get closer to you you don't give me like that time just every time i try to call you or what's up you you'll be telling me or no i'm with this i'm with this guy i'm spending time with him whatever whatever and then like you like most of the times when i try maybe to come to your place now you tell me now you have to go somewhere somewhere somewhere like it can be always hard we have to go somewhere or what that's because of having errands then when do you find time to to make time for your men i did try finding thai you also know how to fit in a male best bestie the thing is he's been my childhood friend like with that clothes he's actually he's basically now my family but you understand that if you have a male best friend right this is how things work if you have a male best friend the minute you get a boyfriend that male best friend has to step back no really you can't because was he cutting you no no not really he hated no friends actually he has his own girlfriend and the girlfriend understands that i'm the female bestie it's either me first then her later ah that's how it is so in your relationship as well it was your bestie first and then yeah so later because the friend knows me way better than him he might like you see you just costed me then my friend was there oh yeah if your best friend knows you that means you allowed him to know you again so why didn't you do that the same to me like you should have allowed me to know you better need yes i did try but then the thing is um i'm not that person who just opens up to anyone like it's hardly a yeah we haven't been together for like nine months is a lot mandy it is a lot i know but then it's not really fair to me my present to open up to your boyfriend yeah it's not fair um and i'm not hearing you like you know i think the thing is yeah yeah oh if you open up yeah yeah oh there might be skeletons in the closet that you don't want him to find out about opening but do you understand opening up doesn't mean telling a man your secrets it means opening up and being vulnerable and letting him know of your feelings and showing affection that's opening up you don't have to tell him babe i killed the man two years ago he understand you need to you know yeah okay so that what you're saying is not really opening up you need he needed to see that affection am i right hotel yeah you're right you're right so you felt like you're dating someone called was she called i like what do you mean like like she was not welcoming she was not affectionate she was not loving yeah yeah so like that's why i decided or no maybe she doesn't love you she doesn't love me yeah okay let me step back yeah see what i did also going anywhere yeah cuz i feel like this was a waste of time or one yeah yeah a waste of your nine months yeah but also for for you to just ghost and not say it did you ever communicate what you're saying right now to her well i i didn't because of like i was always like telling her no man you are spending a lot a lot of time with that [ __ ] with your best friend yeah so i was telling you that dorian you're spending a lot of time with his best friend every time i try to get closer to you you find excuses and then so you just decided lock a block a block then you moved on uh yeah i decided to block but that doesn't mean i have moved on i want but just to block it if if if it will be it comes out of your a notebook yeah yeah because in okay girl i see you blushing how do you feel i'm actually happy to hear that yeah she still loves me yeah yeah okay are you in a relationship currently yeah not yet but um soon i think you you yeah you rules around just moving around yeah i'm just chilling i'm just trying to defend myself foreign you're finding yourself in the vagina where are you finding yourself yeah like i'm just chilled right now yeah i don't want to rush into a new relationship over so so far you're just dipping in soup no it's fine gal you are you currently the relationship nah you're single yeah and you've been actually i don't even want to ask so both of you since you are you losing she's completely single would you then be open to to getting back together if there was ever a chance but you need to fix this mandy child you need to fix yourself yeah no you need because we we can't you can't tell me the reason is coming from both of you guys that the problem was the male bestie and then you guys fix things and then you get back together and then the problem again is the male best it does not make sense yeah like yes so men do you you need to be willing to to to to spend less time with a male best if you're not willing then i don't think there's there's a chance you understand yeah i do would you so then would you be willing yes really yeah how do you feel then her tattoo would you take her back if she's willing to spend less time with the the male bestie no i think i don't think it's possible because of like she said that guy she's more like familiar to him and yeah she's like a relative to him so i don't think you think she's lying she's not going to do it things change people change too come on yeah so so like is it going to be like no guy here's the problem one two three one two three you and i are going to we're not going to spend a lot of time together he's going to understand trust me he's going to understand yes you will and i will not are you going to feel if he how am i going to feel i'll be happy because i'll be back with you and yeah um are you having doubts do you feel like she's not gonna do it yeah i'm doubting here or what i'm doubting it yeah because of like she should have understood long oh yeah no this is the problem this problem cause caused this thing and then now she's here and she's telling me what she can yeah but do you understand that maybe absence makes the heart grow fonder and it took you leaving for her to realize oh my gosh i need to do this don't you think that's a possibility now that she lost you now she she understands her mistakes she realizes her mistakes rather okay are you sure about what you're talking about yes i am oh well i think i can't decide now yeah yeah okay let's continue but at least unblock her okay like can you at least you know yeah the thing is for now we should start as strange as i want so that you can re-enter ah not even as friends strangers yeah cause of like if if like if like we start like reintroduce ourselves and then like start becoming formal and so like things can go smoothly or wrong yeah so you so so so from nine months to strangers like when you see someone you can see alright this person is like this but then when cam goes by concealer that that piece is not the person that i thought he was yeah yeah okay so you having doubts but you are willing to unblock her yeah i'm willing okay me i'm happy with that bendy how do you feel yeah enough it yes all is all right there you have it all the questions are answered but not all of them quite please do stay tuned i'm about to go to the break right after this it's us answers to questions stay tuned all right tim zanzi welcome back to closure bring me back my stuff we've reached the other segment of the show answers are two questions now ho chateau and mandy you guys are gonna ask each other three questions okay three questions i think mandy let's start with you okay hotato did you ever trust me um well i actually i did trust you before but during times goes bad i lost trust or i can't trust you why so like i don't think you can like i don't think like you can you know you can bring back the love that i give you baby i want so i don't trust you on that so i don't think i don't trust you with my heart yeah yes yes okay so you don't trust my meal bestie of course i don't trust him i don't trust him like he's a guy he's a guy yeah you have to know that so don't trust that he just has pure intentions just pure intentions with me he doesn't i don't i don't like for now i don't know what that what are his intentions but some way somewhere you know you have um third question are you good yeah i'm good now all right are you happy with his answers satisfied at least what's really like like he doubts his intentions you know like insane corner i find like he believes that the way he thinks yeah his perspective is yeah and that's not it yeah it's actually the opposite i teach you yeah right your turn okay now when you're with him you spend a lot of time there yeah so it's like it is in public or sometimes in in your room or where private private place or where do you spend most of the time at school we usually go to the mall mostly we'll be indoors watching tv watching tv yeah movies hey netflix and chillin whenever he wants to cuddle we obviously invite his girl hey then it's just the third wheeling i don't mind being that okay yeah so if his girl is not around what are you guys doing like we'll go out to the mall take pictures videos so don't you see that as moments with my best yes hashtag best moments okay just that uh like i wanna present moments came like at the honor formula that those previous moments like did you hold on important than before i want previous moments so that forever when you're with he go with him like the previous moments that you had i didn't mean nothing uh because he is the guy he's giving you like his time like you you don't get bored oh and yeah so another question did you ever love me yes i did a lot actually a lot yes yeah but then the way the way you were showing it like i i i thought that was love i don't know if you know what what love is but maybe my way of showing it was weird the love languages were different yeah yeah yeah but if you guys do get back together you guys need to learn each other's love languages yeah you need to love him the way he wants to be loved not the way you think he should be loved or the way you want to be loved does it make sense mandy yeah it does yeah maybe if we get back together maybe yeah yeah that may be in bold okay that question actually that christian actually that was enough yeah that was enough all right two questions are you guys satisfied yeah okay we don't know if you guys are getting back together i guess it's still pending at least please unblock her yeah right okay definitely yeah at least you're not in a relationship right yeah i'm putting a relationship all right zanzi we've reached that other part which is the last part which is bring me back my stuff all right let me just inform the couple or ex-couple rather so what happens is right um this this segment is very simple is there anything you've ever left at his place that you'd like to get back or is there anything you've ever left or she has have of yours that you'd want back anything earrings your dignity you know whatever uh i don't i don't think i left something too because of i we don't spend a lot of time yeah i don't think i meant you wrong you wrong yeah yeah you also nothing because you guys don't spend time together nah in fact you don't make time for him yeah for that i am sorry okay yeah okay are you guys happy are you guys satisfied with your answers all right tim zanzi that's it from me that's it from the couple we've reached the end of the show closure bring me back my stuff see you on the other episode peace you
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