Ready to Love S03E11 Unfinished Business Full Episode 1080HD
[Music] [Music] know it can't be no more fence driving this is your last day here on this process you're not ready to love okay have my hand back [Music] this is really tough man i'm really torn because alexis is amazing but me having this opportunity this second time around with kyra i don't want this to be the end of me trying to figure out can this work or not i had a feeling that it was coming but i still was going to stay true to myself and i was not going to force myself to make a decision that i was not totally ready to make i'm only choosing one husband and if i'm only going to be in a committed relationship with somebody i'm going to be cautious and take my time with making that decision when i pick that person i'm not going back to anybody else stop slow down so slow down stop at this point it's only four guys two of them i've already you know it's pretty solid and jason's made his choice obviously i'm not sure about mine do you want to be here with me yes i do i don't want to see you go i don't well i changed my mind wait what i was really taken back because i had not at one point chosen aj he didn't have nothing to stand on even in that moment i wasn't saying aj i choose you but he was still willing to say yo i see what we could be i see something in you and i'm not ready to close that door and the fact that he did that to me spoke volumes can i ask you why why sitting here holding your hand i don't want it to be the last time i hold it i've waited four years for a second day i'm not ready to throw that away just yet i'm there with you i really want to see where this goes can i do that with you i would like to see that too aj all right now can i have a yeah [Music] i don't even know how to put in words because one second i'm gone and then now this man is like i changed my mind i was like can i kiss you right now i was on cloud nine so ultimately i changed my mind and it was a bittersweet moment because i knew me giving cairo more time meant that alexis's time was ending i know it took me some time to get to the place that you wanted me to now i'm be i'm ready aj reached out to me to meet him by the pool and i had to accept the fact that he might not choose me i'm nervous i'm afraid i'm a lot of different emotions all at one time you gotta be nervous what is going on what you mean i got you nervous man look you already know in every step of this i've always just kept it straight forward with you i don't want that to have a change i'm about to cry don't cry oh lord fix it jesus okay oh lord they got that hand ooh charm school okay that's how he gets me he takes me from ten brings me down to zero i think that me and you will be in each other's lives for a long time and i'm smiling because i'm thinking oh man he about to say girl you're the one i just knew he was getting ready to tell me that but i don't know if i can be truly what it is that you see okay so we all knew that somebody was gonna have to leave when it came to the end of this trip and i'm sorry alexis yeah that's gonna be you okay i'm not ready alone it's messed up to me because i chose you i told you that i chose you i just got backstabbed by the person that i genuinely like i'm ready just now with you if you knew how extremely difficult this has been okay and even sitting here talking to you i'm not walking in shorty at all [Music] no hard feelings but i appreciate our time together and this has been a wonderful experience for me and it's taught me a lot about myself this experience reminded me if i continue to seek god in his righteousness then all these things that i ask of him will come to pass so i wish you the best in your future we're good don't be a stranger all right looks like you don't hit y'all get to my baby it's painful but it just means that i'm not yet ready to receive what it is that i'm requesting and it was a reminder to me alexis to love yourself more once i see myself the way that god sees me then he will release the man to me i'll see you later [Music] yes [Music] thank you i'm trying to figure out why because i know that aj had a strong connection with alexis so i'm just a little bit confused hey hey beautiful ladies how y'all doing good good all right all right sit down here no secret we are missing a real big presence in this room today unfortunately alexis time came to an end so i know some of you always real close yeah well let's remember this alexis may not have found her love here but i am certain that she gonna find it sooner or later actually definitely this week i am sending you on your last one-on-one date i want you to spend some intimate time together holy hands looking to the eyes baby [Music] [Laughter] maybe my kiss or two you know something about kissing oh i said it i ain't taking none of it back i want you to determine if you can get past the idea of being in a relationship okay and transitioning to the action of being a couple yeah there's a difference between the two feel it out discuss the future trust your female intuition y'all all have it most importantly listen to your heart because at the end of this week we're gonna meet again to find out if one of the remaining men just isn't ready to love hmm we got some more work to do i'll see y'all soon right all right all right all right all right be safe everybody right julia i'll tell you what you ain't gonna do julia now with vernisha i don't know if y'all know i had a conversation with aj you know at the ranch before we left i said that i did not want to yo-yo with anybody that i was dealing with in this process he respected that he said with that i'm changing my mind and i don't want you to go home wow so you still don't have a decision though i'm gonna see how these you know dates go i feel awkward because i do want to obviously pursue my connection with aj but i have some unfinished business with jason jason from what i'm assuming chose listen if it came down to aj choosing me or sending me home so that's the conversation that i'm interested to have with jason because when we ended our day at the ranch that's not really how it was positioned to me so he never told you that he was choosing legs no but you're still interested in both of these guys jason and i had a real strong connection does that connection go away overnight no it doesn't because it was genuine don't make it seem like i was the second pig this man had two top connections and he picked me it is what it is and i didn't like how she tried to make that scene how do you feel about that list at this point for me and jason i feel like we're solid we'll just see we'll just take this challenge that tommy gives us and sit down see what happens [Music] i'm feeling cool calm collective about going to venetia's house that's the three seeds dig if you don't know about that well you gotta understand we was able to overcome a little hump got the wrench i need to let know how i feel right [Music] come on joao this date is so significant because coming from the trip and everything that we had gone through my apology was accepted because you didn't think it was really was i am sorry about that apology accepted you see right here i made you a glass of wine he could have easily been done i was ready to be done to be honest you got me over here feeling oh gee cup of wine play the food walk around that sweat dress i'm feeling excited about spending some you know more intimate time together he can see us off the side of me i'm not always aggressive in jesus name we pray man amen amen we still be working with now be honest smell good i almost said grace again for real [Music] it's good i ain't gonna lie what you think about our little getaway i think it was cool what'd you think about i don't know just gave me clarity i feel like on us that we can overcome something if we need to i agree with you understand that we both have our ways of seeing things but the common goal is the only thing that really matters your family i agree yeah i like the fact that the energy was not where it was before we was able to overcome our little misunderstanding i got the vibe that she was done with it too hey i heard you chose me is that true uh even after our little mishap yeah i've never not chose you who you chose afterwards apples i chose you so you never was not like my number one even when you said i wasn't your number one nah even when i said it i'm feeling like it was meant to be nothing up until this point kind of matters of what we went through on a negative side because i always knew where his heart was i'm just secure where i'm at he wasn't known wasn't that what's next for what me and you well i would like to hear that from you joelle i think we need to continue to see where this thing goes but everything i do too yeah it's to the point now we're going to try this thing out or what cause you're the one i want to try it out with am i wrong with feeling that way i don't think so are you coming over here all right come on what a plan [Music] green looked good on liz and i roll up together i'm excited the load is off my chest and i can finally just focus on one person i'm feeling at ease and i'm just happy man she's dope new day new beginning i know and i'm just i can't quit grinning from ear to ear i'm just glad that i made that decision i appreciate you throughout all this you know you've been very transparent with me consistent fine as hell being on this date with jason feels like a dream but when we were at the ladies lounge i was very much irritated with kyra because she discounted jason and i's connection so i'm just a little bit confused at this point so i'm gonna throw a curveball itch okay been getting that a lot ready yeah in that conversation that you had with kyra at the ranch what if she would have told you that she picked you what would you have done you and me would still be sitting here okay because my mind was already made up okay good i just needed to hear it from the horse's mouth and one of the things that i asked her was at this point i just need to know what your direction is whether it's this person that person this guy that guy there's been enough dates with everybody yeah that should be able to make a decision by now this whole time she never really gave me any direction i felt like it was this and jeans and so that speaks volumes to me that's what it is mine already made up yeah it don't take long you don't take long hold that that let me grab something real quick okay okay jason leaves the table and i'm like what's happening [Laughter] so this is for you but hold on real quick i have a story behind this i've only gave out two roses my whole life white roses so the first one i gave to my mother the second one i gave to my stepmother i'm gonna give you this white rose and i'm being serious right now and this is why i chose you as well is because throughout this entire process you have kept it pure honest in your resilience and white represents purity you are a pure heart and woman so i'll be honored if you accept this from me because you are worth it you're worth my time and you are worth the pursuit would you accept this for me all right [Music] [Music] to see those tears let me know this was real for her and it just excited me even more like i like me some liz i ain't gonna lie [Music] [Laughter] my prayer for this journey was that god i want to find someone that sees me that sees my heart and when he did that it showed me that he saw my heart and it meant a lot to me thank you [Music] [Music] [Applause] how are you doing i'm good how are you sparkle in your eyes i haven't seen amber since we had left the ranch and so i'm excited to see her looking like the goddess that she is cheers good to see you she's always cheers to us yes and the future and the future and feeling a little apprehensive about how she's feeling her energy you know where she's at with ron i mean all of that i had a lot of people you know come up to me and ask me how i felt you know darren truth or dare with the whole ron thing and you you know going out and then revealing that you kissed him but just for some confirmation affirmation like what's good like ain't nothing else you know i ain't you know like dipping talking on the side i stopped communication with him it was nothing then i felt the need to express to chris that he literally is it i can say this i don't have any more twos or threes neither do i i feel like we have something great going on here and i'm enjoying it i'm just ready to see where it goes i realized that there are no other connections and i wanted him to know that especially of the wrong kiss situation honey i had to give him security and reassure him that he still has amber right there at his heart i feel like every time we meet it just solidifies our connection and i'm happy with that you you don't know how much that meant to me my eyeballs are trying to sweat um i know i'm trying not to you were caring you were nurturing i mean you made me feel so comfortable and secure it it meant so so so so so much and i really appreciate you for that of course um yeah thank you yeah i mean i'm just feeling it okay i'm on the rainbows the cotton candy the unicorn it's all here i'm ready i'm ready to have a baby or three how how many do you want i don't think of that did i ask you that i do like kids and i'm me too i would be happy with one you know i would like to be married first though we don't have to be married because i'm not even having sex right now like ever in life i mean yeah once i get married married and we you what all the way through you get married yeah because i can't convince you a little bit maybe no i mean don't count your boy out just because you know i'm holding off i'm practicing this semen retention now i think the main thing i'm just trying to protect the sexual energy because that is the most important energy that we have humans have and like for me to be giving that away to women who weren't deserving of it like i was just like what was i doing chris listen here amber deserves that energy okay i know damn well i didn't find a connection and you mean to tell me i'm gonna have to wait oh lord no i'm against you or not oh wow that'll be the time to get knocked up because there's gonna be trillions of them suckers swimming i mean you might end up with triplets quadruplets or something in this thing how long yeah because i'm backed up racked up backed up well i'ma bring it out you'll see how hard it is for you to resist this oh it's been hard because i'm still a man i'm still a human i'll be looking at your booty all the time if he looks at my butt and looks at me all the time i mean i'm sure it won't take much for him to not want to practice semen retention anymore right now oh you're gonna find out okay all right let's go test and see let's go test and see i like aj a lot we've always had a connection throughout this journey but in the past when i went on dates with aj all of my eggs were really in the basket of jason i didn't really give him a fair shake so now i'm still trying to know for sure if aj is the person i can't commit to well this is lovely a nice little chartreutery cutery i don't know how they say it but whatever the case is lovely well i figured we'd do something a little bit more chill after that last yes date that we had there i appreciate that it's the first time i'm seeing her again from the ranch i just kind of want to get a grasp on where she's at i know where i am at i've made my choice at this point and i'm open to the possibilities of what can take place with cairo now that we don't went to the ranch we don't have the time to be out and around everyone what are we going to do now my intention is for us to move forward i'm in a good place you're in a good place all right how do you feel about it i kind of just want to know where do we stand now where do we stand now look if you gotta ask that still then i don't like i don't know what to tell you i just i don't see your home now around this not the right one i'm just saying i don't have any options or opportunity to split my time anymore so you're about to catch all of the heat oh okay when it comes to cairo i always feel like i've been admiring her from afar we dated in the past so to have this opportunity to have a second chance i want to take it and i i think that that played a lot into my decision of keeping her here because i'm not willing and ready to just take that l when it comes to her and i just yet so do you feel like you made the right decision sometimes it's not about whether or not you felt like you made the right decision in the moment which decision do you feel like you regret the most if you didn't make it if you look back and you say man i should have did this or what if that and you had to actually ask yourself that yeah that's probably the direction that you should go in even if it's the one that doesn't necessarily give you the brightest light at the end of the tunnel i hadn't thought about like that before aj is showing me the man that he is cheers to us moving forward and what the future holds ahead i could toast to that but i'm still having some reservations on the connection that i had with jason i need to talk to him and hear where he's coming from where it went wrong i am hoping that i can get some clarity [Music] oh all right we're here [Music] hey look at y'all final four is looking fabulous yeah i'm trying to figure out what's going to happen in this deliberation because it seems like everybody is coupled up so i'm trying to figure out who's going home let's cut to the romance i want to hear all about your dates this week amp chris and i we had a wonderful time it was more intimate and you know he actually cried just crying expressing himself about me and how he just feels like you know this was just he cried dude his boy still be sexy oh my god i'm crying right now i can't believe i'm crying we're gonna slow it down a little bit as my tears begin to blow [Laughter] i did hear something in the date that i i don't know how i feel about so he is going through semen retention yeah so how are you basically a celibacy we talked about a little bit of it but i didn't know like he was applying it what you call it again he calls it semen retention basically syllabus yeah that's new to me very new so i was like i respect your decision don't get me wrong but you know that's something that's going to be hard for me if you sent wayne to marriage because we get married in two years i mean now come on now retention nothing i don't know yeah so y'all be praying for me doing this i'm gonna pray for you i'm not gonna be praying for his retention we did talk about the ranch and kind of where we were a little a little blow up we had we'll blow up but what we did realize is that we can overcome anything correct that's good miss liz i want cloud9 jason said that he made his decision a couple of weeks ago of what he wanted to do based on some of our conversations that we've had so he said that he said that when kyra laughed it was disrespectful but that just shows what's going on inside of her it has nothing to do with me after we had our conversation jason gave me a single white rose he says that i've only given two other women in my life a single white rose my mother and my stepmom he said you are pure and that's what this rose means he says you're a good woman and i see you i see your heart wow and that's why i chose you it just meant a lot to me this is beautiful yeah no shade towards liz but what she said was that comical to me celibacy until she's married is something that is very important to her my conversations with jason they didn't involve celibacy this does not make sense the reason why i chuckled to myself was not that i'll be offensive i feel like the position was put on me as if i was playing the game and some of the stuff you're saying i'm just like that's ironic because it seems like he was playing the game not saying with you but maybe with me because to say that the decision was made a couple weeks ago that's not what was conveyed to me and if your decision changed so long ago then why were you still pressing me to make a decision i felt like if you've made your decision then what i decide doesn't impact you does that make sense to you as well liz from what he shared with me is that he needed to hear from kyra herself where she stood because he felt that there was some things that happened between their relationship that was disingenuous and just like she said she felt the same thing oh what have you i didn't feel like i'm feeling like it's disingenuous now not trying to be funny but i look at it like okay her other option is gone so you're not pressing her the fact that i do have someone you want to force me to make a decision that i'm not ready to make and that to me is a sign of someone that she will mishandle me in real life wow it seems like you and jason got some more to talk about i think you deserve answers but let's switch over let's talk about aj we did go on a date and for him to respect my decision-making process spoke volume to the type of man and the support that he would give me in a relationship beyond this journey so what are we saying kyle in the process ended today who would you leave with um aj h i'm rocking with aj 100 comfortable about it i am i think we're at a crossroads this week one man was supposed to end their journey um but all the connections seemed like they got real potential okay so why would i step in and mess it up why would i do that why would i do that we got four final couples going into the last week that is not supposed to be oh okay joelle and i made it all the way to the end i'm feeling relieved it's static overwhelmed i know you've made your selection amongst the guys but the last step in this process is a two-way commitment he'll go to curveball both of you all have to decide to move forward as a committed couple i'm putting together the final dinner to address both the ladies and the gentlemen this is one last time before you make your very very bear last decision you all cool with that yeah yeah all right okay [Applause] how y'all feeling i do have a little bit of attitude because i do not feel like jason was fair towards me since you are still bothered by it are you really choosing aj because you no i'm choosing aj because i feel like jason like you said i was the one playing the game but based on our conversations and how it rolls out to me it's like what were you doing playing the game i was very much irritated with kyrah because she tried to attack jason's character i've always known that man to be upfront and honest so the things that she was saying i choose to pick my battles and i'm not going to stoop down to her level we will see [Music] so what the business is lady who you came with i can tell what you're drinking by reading your body language so distinguished and awoke to meanness hey how you doing queen i'm dead how are you going i'm good i'm great you look great looking thank you how are you doing i'm good all right i get a call from kyra which i'm confused because i feel like everything that needed to be said was said what i don't want to do is renege i made my mind up i don't see the relevance in it however you know you kind of want to expound and give people clarity and everything i just want to check in with you okay i feel like we're due another conversation okay um i am taking tommy's advice to have a conversation with jason because i'm very frustrated and my disappointment in jason is now turning into anger towards him so the conversation that we have today at the ladies lounge was quite interesting because when liz is talking she's saying that when you guys have talked you told her that you made your decision weeks ago and if you made your decision weeks ago then why wouldn't you tell me that because that's not what you were telling me honestly so much was said i'll be honest with you queen i can't remember i'm not saying there yay i'm just saying so much however i did tell her recently that i had my mind made up weeks ago not really so that's on me so i'm sorry about that for you and i at the tennis court i needed clarity you know what you really feel right now and so i'm asking you what is it and still to this day i don't really know where you act kyra does a very poor job at telling people how she feels but at this point i'm rolling with the punches i made my decision i feel very good with liz the connection's there and it is what it is one of the things that i'm noticing is like even the last several times that we're linked up it's been more i don't want to use the word interrogating but it's been more so of trying to find answers trying to talk about this trying to talk about that instead of focusing on the moment i didn't see it at the interrogation we do have a lot of questions back and forth about each other and i wanted to know well what are your what is about me as a person so to say it became an interrogation like even right now this is the prime example of what i'm talking about i'm trying to figure out what the direction of this whole thing is right now because it feels like more so it's not a date it's not jason's still trying to get to know you it's more so of not even clarification it's just directness and clarification but it makes me feel like damn like what am i doing that is so bad and i did my god on his best to be very direct with you at this point i was annoyed because i made my decision let's just move forward in a positive way because what i don't want to happen is we're tearing each other down because i still think highly of you what is it that you're trying to tell me i wanted you to be like kyra it's about your decision for you not about your decision for jason and jason's timing and what i found out was that you were saying that but she was also checking out we're not going to do this i'm being very high no no but we're not going to do this sometimes she would try to veer off and make another complaint i'll shut that down i'm like no queen what is it that you want kyra [Music] what do you want if i had related differently and you would have gotten it when you were asking me for a decision do you feel like the outcome would have been different no i still think it'd be the same because i really genuinely feel confident in liz okay based on how things have gone thus far my decision is for us to stay as friends thank you feel better no why because i hate that we got to the situation i hate that there was the discourse between you and i that allow space for somebody else i thought that jason would be the one who would handle me right and handle my heart with care and i always questioned if aj would be able to and in this moment i'm realizing that jason is the one that i should have been questioning i felt like i was nothing but 100 with you i didn't feel that way at that time if i feel like you didn't receive it that way that's fine we talked about it now and so i have to kind of brush out his water under the bridge you know i'm disappointed in it and that's his decision so i have to accept it but it hurts it hurts a little bit something's just not meant to be thank you so [Music] [Music] hmm at the final dinner it was really good to see everybody together you know joelle and vernicia it seems like they're married already chris and amber they match each other uniqueness tyra and aj i'll be honest i'm not sure hopefully they'll work out and you know they'll have a beautiful journey together and of course me and jason that's my boo i gotcha really you really took my shrimp like that you know i like shrimp really tastes so good okay it's the when i saw jason and liz i honestly wasn't expecting to feel any kind of way but this too really got under my skin however i like aj a whole lot so i'm focused on him wholeheartedly but i'm still having some reservations on okay kyrie you like him but do you know him enough to say yes aj in this moment right now i am ready to make a commitment to you [Applause] y'all looking good thank you you're trying to like what i see so listen it's a beautiful thing to see love settling in because it's been a long time coming yes we started this process with 20 singles 10 men and 10 women all of you shared one common goal what was that in love look at all four of you all you're on top you're on top baby give yourselves a round of applause [Applause] at this point it's pretty clear y'all know each other pretty damn well by now yeah however i don't think any relationship is truly truly legitimized until you take one very important step meeting each other's families yes ladies if you have not met a black man's mama you probably have not been in a relationship that's true he got to take you home yeah it's not the real thing until big mama give you a hug and share her macaroni and cheese recipe with you all right all seriousness meeting your partner's family is a huge step towards your relationship your families look at your potential mate with fresh eyes yeah and pure intentions just when i thought that this was the end of the road tommy tells us we have to meet the family it's a little bit too early for that for me i know how this can go off the rails if either one of us messed this up i wish you all well and i hope that each of your journey ends with what you came here for love all right yeah you're late i am nervous okay i am a handful just imagine my family i feel i feel good you can't wait to meet your mom mm-hmm you don't see a female version of me really oh man that's gonna be cool yeah okay i'll be honest with you my mom is very important to me i could not see myself saying completely yes if my mom said no i need this my family like they know me better than anybody else so i'm really hoping that they can help me make this decision i'm at a make or break it moment and i can really only get through this with their support and with their guidance so basically what you're telling me is my mom the mom got to get the thumbs up she does [Music] next time on the season finale of ready to love this is my brother johnny going to meet liz's family they was look we will knock you out you thank you the right man for my daughter and what are your intentions my mom my son he's 38 years old and i don't have a grandbaby come on is this real is it real is it real oh my god this is crazy each couple will decide if they're going to leave this journey in a committed relationship or walk their separate ways it's the final moment jason can have a change of heart you just never know you
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