weekly vlog — caribbean life, touring aruba, wedding tips, fishing, end of our wedding trip + more
some days feel like an emotional roller coaster wedding stress leaving me dizzy some mystery illness keeping me grounded but then the ocean called and suddenly I thought is the ocean my [Music] prescription we've now been married for 18 days and it's Beach day we also have a week left on the island it's time to enjoy ourselves I was feeling a little this morning but now that I'm out at about the sun is kissing my skin and I'm about to jump in the water I feel so much better I forget my mango [Music] I thoroughly enjoyed the water and we've decided to be big backs and go to Wendy's and Duncan and another place that I'm not going to tell you yet it was so nice to just be in the water and not do anything and not think about anything such a Vibe seeing that we only have a week I think we're going to come and dip at least two three more times is that not realistic I think that is at least two to three more times we need to be in the water like there is no way also my sticky case girl it's so handy I've been using it everywhere all the time it's so perfect I don't even think I talked about it it yet it's so good okay bab ready cuz I'm hungry let's eat this the bad part about going swimming at the beach that's why we have water first to drink a little bit because they going to want some oh this feels so good okay last bit ta clean your feet one of us you want me to get you some want me to go get you some water to dir your Fe again oh yeah need slim you park up there [Music] [Applause] [Music] so [Music] czy we're not being big backs not being as big back as I thought we were going to be I don't know for some reason my husband thought it would be a great idea to go to Taco Bell after I knew it wasn't going to work out I told him that as well I was like you're going to be way too too full like that doesn't make any sense anyway so we went to Wendy's I actually ate my food driving home so it was very very quick but so good um and they gave us a oatmeal cookie I don't know what it's called and now I'm going to taste go it smells really good so I was like I want to taste this I think this is raisins it's not raisin I think it's like blueberries tast really good makes want to learn how to make this myself I honestly wouldn't eat it with a meal I feel like it doesn't go with burgers for some reason like you know how like at Subway your bread and a cookie go so good together but this is not going to go good with a burger or even a baked potato it is really good though amazing so we did go to Duncan the thing is we have Duncan Donuts in the Netherlands it's just not as good as the one on Ara or the one in the states I never had the one in UK I don't even know if they have Duncan in the UK I think they do but Crispy Cream in the UK oh no one beats a glaz Donut from Crispy Cream like ever even the one from um South Africa the Crispy Cream in South Africa was so good tasted the exact same thing as the one from the UK it was just amazing these are the donuts that we got so I have a Sprinkle strawberry and glaze glaze is not as good but it's still good like just the texture of the doughnut itself and then my husband got the atin cream sprinkle and Oreo donut so um when I get out the shower I'm going to jump in the shower in a minute and then I'm going to heat up some water make some tea with a little donut it's just going to be perfect and then we're just going to end off the day by watching a movie or probably watching some TV and just relaxing it's just a perfect way to end a good beach day like this we had an eventful morning we went to the bank two different banks and um I think we're happy with all the results and information that we got now we're going to go to uh duet Center and save more to do some groceries we're actually going to duet center it's a hardware store uh just because I want to see a hardware store I love me a hardware store and um later we're going to go to or attend my tourista Isa day so I organized tourista is day by myself and we're going to do that today we're basically just going to drive around and experience the island like a tourist today I don't know what all we're going to see I also really want to go and uh see the planes land today so we have to be there around 4:00 and then later tonight we're just going to have more of a chill night and make sure that we [Music] um wash clothes and start to pack a little bit because I feel like there's so much we want to do so much fun that we want to have and if we lose focus on the fact that we're leaving on Sunday then the last two days are going to be more stressful than fun and I want them to be more fun than stressful see I knew that things were expensive here which is why I purchased everything in Holland for my hair look 31 that's how many earos both 15 okay so it's not that much more expensive but the point is that it is more expensive and they have products like this that are not that bad about the same price on it oh yeah are these Oak these are c yeah these are H CER I thought so too what happened is a good price this thing cost $3 is that not good you mean not good this is a great oh it's a great price you're the one I want though I was just about to say that's not the original this is the original this is 18 yep Tak at least oh that smells really good I literally told him I said let's get a gari like a cart so we could just put everything in it that we want it also makes vlogging easier for me and now he wants to shop that's all you buy it I'm surprised you're not taking more than that you how much money they sa already Yes I don't think about it these used to be so good power stick for her ooh aluminum free with this is not a lot though it's like not a lot of product I think we should do the the shopping to leave Thea Oh look The Old Spice I used to love these I know they're for not for like made for women find something that you want it's so good so B yeah how much do they usually cost it's 19 or enough like a good price about that price okay well then let's get it eight pack that should be enough for a year so the biggest one I don't think we're going to use it be your best B for your that's true another the excitement on the bright side now you know where to find them when you come and live here again they got a good bit of them different sizes this why want to just have them easy to find look at that gigantic one 150 I'm sure you could I'm sure you could find them yeah but you don't find them often that's my thing that is an insane price makes sense if you have a business2 200 and 30 Florin for pure vanilla I was obsessed with the Twister fruit punch that one obsessed with it but I feel like seeing that it's so cheap that can be good for your body yes yes today we were at the beach and we saw someone with funions so now we have to get funions it made me crave the funions um yeah I want some Cheetos I just realized I haven't had the Puffs yet what do I want puffs or do I want crunchy I'm not a fan of the puff really wow okay well on let's take the crunchy so we can both eat it oh my gosh I used to be obsessed with the rolled gold um pretzels yeah yes I used to eat that bag by myself the M it used to be good I love me a pretzel you know I get the pretzel sticks all the time I always used to get this one and put it in a microwave terrible for your body but I want it all the time look look Hamburger Helper they always make used to make it look so good in the commercials really I always wanted that I want the Honey Bunches of Oats to go to the Netherlands with I'm going to take a regular size you don't want this right I don't eat those things okay perfect and this is for myself cuz if you did I was going to take a family s guys this one looks like um the protein bar from from Wendy's from last night I I looked at the receipt it wasn't free bro I genuinely have no clue how people do it with the pricing we didn't even buy that much and it cost us a good arm and a leg so imagine if you live here and you have to actually do groceries to you know survive and eat all the time some beans in the BL C is okay probably yeah I just saw I just saw a man he was packing up all the things that he bought I know that had to come out to 300 floting at least you remember when we went super food super food is expensive yeah now come out how much again 500 yeah so like okay but that was also for the wedding so it was multiple of stuff yeah yeah but o I don't know how to do it honestly I'm ready to cancel all plans first am M but it on this oh here the AC just feels so nice the couch feels so nice outside is hot oh these are both mine I didn't you eat all your Donuts yesterday so good I'm actually going to make my plan and kind of adjust my plan for t is day because I think it might just be a bit too muchoo the focus with this camera is a real problem hello okay now you can see me I just got ready I have all my makeup on this bed and it is a mess here but it's fine I'm going to clean it up later um we're going to quickly start our toti study B Isa day I really wanted to do my makeup cuz I want to take some pictures of us together on our first first kind of minus or our zero honeymoon cuz it's not really our honeymoon but it kind of is cuz it's just the two of us you know what I mean so um I just want to take some pictures together do a little sseeing just have some fun today um cuz this morning with going to the bank it was just a whole lot of work and not really good vibes so now we're going to go look for the Good [Applause] Vibes [Applause] this I mean the windows and [Music] we just took a selfy here at some point I actually wanted to get married here or at least have the reception here because I not that I thought it would be cheaper but because I just thought like everyone could just have dinner and then we just do a little Dancy dance somewhere in in the back there but honestly I am so glad we didn't do that even though it would have been a very nice view cuz look at the view I mean it doesn't get any better than this the view would have been amazing [Music] we touched the edge of Aruba took some pictures and now we're going to drive look how pretty now we're going to drive to the um gold lines and um after that I think we're going to Natural pool Natural Bridge sorry and then we're going to go to Rogers Beach what time is it 5 to 6 5 to 5 to 5 we have time an hour and a half to get to the beach and then take a little dip the edge of the [Music] river we're looking at beautiful houses day dreaming about building our own ooh I'd love to live like this know your house in the back all the trees in front look how cutesy this is [Music] imagine I used to come here as a kid all the time every time we had visitors come to Aruba like family friends of my parents every single time we used to come here and now I'm a whole married woman [Music] I like how they have caution possible collapse like make sure you don't get on just in case what come your pictures are coming out so nice I understand EXN yes I understand [Music] we decided to go to dinner instead of go to the beach which I'm very excited about cuz I get to wear my outfit I wanted to wear this all summer long y'all I love it I just for some reason I don't remember it being this long I Feel Like It just fits a bit better when iy on the first time and it wasn't this long so I'm just literally going to have to walk like this like a bride I love it let's go to dinner they don't come on as PR with the light so I really should thank D anyways any issues that your grandmother had with me what the hell is that you want to send this to like your dad or something cuz the thing just not hitting look this is my favorite sentence to say let's eat so I decided to go with the lasagna classical I used to get that all the time in the states that was like my go-to and then we also got some appetizers and my husband got the tour of Italy this is the lasna [Music] [Music] and hot even though the one you [Applause] made a little better we literally were not able to finish her food it was so [Music] good you're looking for the change to give a [Music] tip and we you trying to fish for money in there makes it seem like you don't have none yeah it looks so I'm trying to grab all oh that's a lot yeah let's get rid of that fish money also the music was just Elite like it was so just calm and viy and the water is amazing I didn't even get any juice cuz the water was just so good the good thing about eating at Olive Garden is that you leave full and there's always leftovers for the day after thank you and bread Saks are they still good like fresh feeling or no Fresh Out the Oven we had a pretty eventful morning we washed a bunch of loads of clothes we're not done yet but we washed a bunch and I started packing my my bag to leave in a couple of days I can't believe we're leaving and then we also went to a meeting with photographer and now I'm eating my leftovers from yesterday and we're going to go to the beach now we're going to go to Rogers Beach um in literally a couple of minutes we actually were supposed to be there already um because my husband wants to go fishing and it's one of those things that we always do when we're on vacation but because we were so busy this time it had way too much to do and when it when it was like relaxed and downtime I couldn't feel it cuz I just needed my brain to relax like I think I've been over stimulated every single day this vacation I'd like to see in the last couple of days it kind of calmed down yeah ah I believe yeah I'm going to go with the chair the beach chair I'm not going to sit in the sand I'm going to sit on top of with the chair no long pants just in case mosquitoes I really have long P those slippers I don't have yeah okay I don't have long pants you going with that shirt that t yeah I don't have to cover your sleeves I don't have you don't have nothing I have a dirty one you you have nothing else give me the dirty one then you don't have nothing else no baby what to clothes I only come with cutie clothes not fishing clothes anyway let me go get myself a sweater let's have to go with your water and just in case if it gets boring I have love Island episodes to watch I have a chair I have snacks you have to see my husband's face and what else do I have I have work to do so I'll not be bored there's no chance okay that's one that's okay you don't need more sand I mean more things oh my gosh I just came in the car to take out my car contacts cuz my eyes are burning and honestly I should have come with like makeup remover wipes you know get cozy take my makeup off come with a blanket lay on the back seat I like to watch the boy Vibe and catch their fish and enjoy themselves but after like an hour hour and a half which it's already been it's almost 2 hours now I'm kind of over it like I'm ready to go home and just chill shower lay on the couch watch a movie you know get cozy but my husband is enjoying himself and that's honestly part of why I'm still here he's really just he's having the time of his life I do feel kind of bad that this is the only chance we got to fish if we had more chances he would have been able to enjoy himself a bit longer I was also going through the videos because for some I mean not for some reason but I filmed so much content that I don't actually remember what was said or what I filmed right so I went back to wedding day to see see the things that I filmed and pictures that I took and oh like look at this can I play it this iCloud business is so annoying well I can't play the video but look this is when shandro and Jonathan were struggling to get the welcome sign finished I don't even know if anything is filmed of that but they were really struggling with it I can't wait to show you all the videos by this time the time that you see this you probably already saw everything the memories we made this summer were just they're amazing I am so so grateful and so grateful for everyone's help where is that oh look at here this is how they were struggling with it look trying to get it perfect it didn't want to even stick on on the wood I have a video of it I could show you if iCloud wasn't you know but this is them trying to figure it out and it didn't want to stick but I'm so glad that it did also this was not supposed to be left till last minute they were actually supposed to do this on the Friday but everything just didn't go as planned but ended up the way that we planned it does that make sense and not everything obviously cuz some things didn't go the way that they we planned at all but some things did or most things and I'm so grateful for the things that did go well so many good memories I'm so grateful have say yeah baby I was laying here so comfortably just watching YouTube videos and my husband came and said that I should come outside and socialize which he is telling the truth and they do say you have to listen to your husband but I kind of just want to watch YouTube videos okay let me listen to my husband they do say marriage tip 101 listen to your husband [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] spans this [Music] my drink [Music] [Music] [Music] we've now been married for 23 days and today we're actually leaving the house that we rented here on Aruba um and then in a couple of days today's Friday Saturday Sunday so in 3 days for like 2 days and some hours we're actually leaving to go back to the Netherlands and I'm not going to lie I'm kind of ready um I love being here and I love spending time on my Island but sometimes it's like time for routine you know it's time to get your life back on track so I am excited for that but before that time comes um let me enjoy my last couple of days on the island you left the house come completely clean this is where we s the bed was okay but it's nothing like my own bed this is my outfit for today top is a very old top from Zar I love this top I wear it every single vacation I think I bought this 2 years ago and then these shorts are from H&M belt is she in I don't have on sunglasses yet this is how we're leaving it bye-bye the only thing I missed from this place was a pool like I would have loved to be able to jump in the pool but for the rest I enjoyed it it was cold all the time which was nice but also made me lazy most of the time so that wasn't that great also I just realized I didn't need my skin care hot you're staring dreaming drowning okay bye Housey you were good to us we have fun I want to miss this couch oh my gosh am I going to miss this couch how long do you think it is good to know for the future hi Housey it was nice being in [Music] [Music] here we're at the beach have some breakfast specifically [Music] we have been running errands all afternoon because my lovely parents actually forgot a couple of things that they wanted to take with them to the Netherlands so now I have to do it and we also had to go get our decorations because they were still at my father-in-law's house so we went to his house we packed up everything all our flowers I wanted to sell them actually um but no one bought them but they're like such good quality that I didn't just want to throw them away even though for a second I was 100% convinced that just throwing away all the flowers would just be the best option just so not have to deal with it anymore but we had around 900 flowers in total and I genuinely think that half of the high quality ones we didn't even use but anyways the ones that we did use or half of the ones that we did use and then the ones that we didn't use we still have and my mom was like you know what don't throw it away it's a waste of money put them up let's just save them and put them in our house so we actually have people renting our house right now and tomorrow we're going to drop off all of the boxes with our wedding decor in it and then I'm just going to stay in my childhood home and then maybe you never know if I do a vile renewal and I do it in my own house so I don't have to pay for a venue I could use them again I don't think my husband's going to like that idea also I decided to take 30 of them 30 of the Roses that we used at our wedding and go to the Netherlands with them I feel like I just want something like memory-wise to keep but then also to use I feel like it would be really nice if I have like or at least in my mind this is how I see it right I'm going to maybe plan like a date night after work like he comes home I have food cooked and you know these flowers and candles on around the house and then it'll just be cutesy for sentimental value you know anyway so we're actually cuz I didn't update you yet so we left the house that we were renting and now we're staying at my brother-in-law's house and then we're going to stay there until we leave on Sunday I think I'm going to get get some work done cuz I have a lot to do a lot of content to edit I didn't even go through my wedding day content yet um I think now yeah today I uploaded the video of us traveling from Amsterdam to Aruba so I still have a lot of work to do um oh my husband's coming I hope he found it tomorrow we're going to go to church and then we have some family time right after that and then Sunday we're leaving you bought to is one for us yeah oh this is a rubust um very special hot sauce mild Pika papaya my dad really wanted one I always want to feel like I'm ready to go home when I leave Aruba and we're leaving tomorrow and that feeling kicked in every single time I have been back to Aruba I've been for at least a month and it always feels like I'm living like a fantasy kind of cuz I'm not working when I come back I'm just chilling living on vacation you know so I'm ready to just get back to reality and start to yeah like make a life for myself sounds crazy cuz I mean I already have a life there but just to get back on track get a good job start to maybe work out cuz now I have all this time that I was using to plan the wedding I have all this free time open to get serious about something like I could get serious about being on YouTube again which makes me so happy I also want to find like a good full-time job so that's also something that I'm looking forward to I'm just excited to you know just get back to life so I'm getting ready to go to church now so I'm doing a very minimal look it's not necessary to be that dramatic today there is just so much that I am excited about like going shopping for some fall pieces there is so much like I don't know if you saw the packing video when I was packing to come to Aruba I packed so many clothes I shopped for so much and there's so much that I didn't get to wear and they're pretty like basic pieces that I can use to transition into fall so I am really excited about that that's why I don't feel as bad that I did get to wear those outfits because I know that once I get back I could still wear them till at least end of October actually I could probably wear them in the winter as well all I would have to do is you know get some leggings to put underneath to make sure that I don't freeze I'm also really excited about my first Christmas as a wife that's going to be so much fun I already know what I'm doing Decor wise I just don't know exactly how it's all going to work out but I have a really good idea I actually came up with it months ago but but I'm excited to just have it all come to life but that's for later we're not going to talk about that yet so we're going to church right now and then after that I think we need to run a couple more errands um I think we need to go to the grocery store get some things that we want to go to the Netherlands with and I think that is it I really want to go to the beach like I just need my last dip before going back I feel like that's something I want to do like every single time that I'm here and I can't just not have a last dip so I really want to do that today and then we actually have a lunch with our family a little Sabbath lunch and just like a together and just hang out with everyone we did that last week as well and it was just so much fun to just you know like have family time and be together so we just got home from church and I was like you know what I need to jump in the sea it is way too hot today might just be my last day for the year to jump into the Ruben ocean so I just we can't just stay home and not do that so we're going to Rogers beach for a quick trip [Music] [Music] right I'm going to miss you Aruba in the water with my phone that is something I would usually never do but I have a Tik Tok I to do like a Tik video I want to finish it and the only way I can finish it is if I get in the water with my phone so you get it I do wish I had my shades I my shades on me but y the water is so perfect I wish I could stay in here all day but we have lunch to get so and family to Sea and this my and even though I love being in the sea it was feel a little better to be my family and to spend the last day with them so let's go get some lunch and it's been the last day on Aruba I can't believe it feel was so crazy to say time went by so fast but I'm so grateful for the memories that we created here okay let's go cuz if I start I am going to Ramble On and On so let's get out the water [Applause] [Music] we're now heading to the airport cuz how do they say it in Dutch no how do they translate it from Dutch to English there's a for there's a a time to come and a time to go and a time to go has come that's what it is I'm excited to be back home get over the flight we have a I think 12h hour flight back home in total is it 12 or is it 10 I don't know either point is a very long travel day ahead and we're also traveling with one of my how would we call Mia is she my cousin my little cousin second cousin technically my second cousin-in-law my second cousin-in-law she's my cousin okay we're traveling with her and um we already did it 2 years ago it went so smooth smooth so I hope and pray it goes smooth this time as well um we still have our car that we rented for the month and um we're actually going to return the car now and then head to the airport thankfully close to each other so it don't have to be too stressed out I already feel like we don't have enough time but that's not true we have enough time so yeah let me just soak in the last bit of sun that is touching me here in the car and then we're going to head back home [Music] trust I'm [Music] nervous we go [Music] yep just like they say a time to come and a time to go and a time to go has come see you next time
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